By Nadine Ijewere for Vogue US April 2023
My future success is protected and written in stone.
No harm will come its way.
6i:
everybody loves a woman’s independence until it threatens their ego.
Anyone else think so fast you don’t use words? The concept just clicks and your brain moves on, and trying to go back to slow it down and turn it into words for someone else is torture?
Stay away from men who :
- Can’t take accountability.
- Overly aggressive as his main personality trait.
- Anger issues / unsolved trauma that manifests in his character.
- Refers to women as “bitches” or “females”.
- Idolizes men like Future.
- Money flexers
- Combative
- Cold/ apathetic
- Pride themselves in being nonchalant.
- Pride themselves in how many women they can simultaneously entertain.
- Lazy with no goals or ambitions.
- Glamorize the street/ gang lifestyle
- Controlling
- Insecure / date women solely for the approval from their friends.
- Irresponsible with his manhood
- Lacks basic communication skills
- Calls his mom by her first name
- Disrespects the mother of his children, publicly or privately.
- Thinks expressing basic human emotion makes him “soft” or believe it’s a “woman’s trait”.
Don’t forget that kids are annoying and expensive as well.
I’m such a fan of low soft lighting like turn off that room light and turn on a lamp bitch
